An unplanned pregnancy can already feel overwhelming. When someone close to you begins pushing you toward a decision you’re unsure about, that weight can feel even heavier. It’s important to pause and remember this: no one else gets to decide what you do with your pregnancy. Your thoughts, values, and feelings matter.
At Aggieland Pregnancy Outreach, we offer free, confidential support so you can talk openly and explore your options without pressure or judgment. Schedule an appointment today to connect with someone who will truly listen and support you.
1. Conversations Feel One-Sided
Notice how others respond when you talk about different options. If you mention parenting or adoption and the response is dismissive, rushed, or irritated, but calm and encouraging when abortion comes up, that imbalance can be a sign of pressure.
Even subtle reactions can leave you doubting yourself or make you feel like your voice doesn’t matter. You deserve to be heard fully, not steered in a single direction.
2. Support Depends on Your Choice
Support should not come with conditions. Sometimes pressure shows up when someone offers financial or emotional help if you lean toward abortion, but withdraws that offer when you consider other paths.
This can leave you feeling boxed in or fearful of losing support. Healthy support respects your process, even when the outcome isn’t what someone else expects.
3. Pressure Turns Into Control
In some situations, pressure escalates. Threats to leave the relationship, withdraw financial help, or take away housing cross an important line. That behavior is not loving or supportive; it’s controlling.
If you ever feel unsafe, emotionally or physically, help is available. You can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233, which is available 24/7 for confidential support.
This Is Your Decision
People may speak from fear, stress, or their own past experiences. However, you alone have the right to make a decision. You get to gather information and choose what aligns with your values and hopes for the future.
At Aggieland Pregnancy Outreach, we provide education on parenting, adoption, and abortion in a calm, supportive environment. Our goal is not to rush or pressure you, but to help you think clearly and confidently about your next steps.
You don’t have to carry this alone. Schedule your free, confidential appointment today. We’re here to walk with you and remind you of your strength.
FAQ:
Can someone force me to have an abortion?
No. The decision is legally yours, and no one has the right to force or threaten you into choosing abortion.
What if I don’t feel safe talking to my partner or family?
Your safety comes first. Consider reaching out to a trusted friend, counselor, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233) for immediate support.
Does Aggieland Pregnancy Outreach provide abortions?
No. We do not perform or refer for abortions. We offer accurate information about all options so you can make an informed decision.
Can I visit without telling anyone?
Yes. All visits to Aggieland Pregnancy Outreach are completely confidential.