In the past, many young couples were pressured into marriage as a result of an unplanned pregnancy. That pressure occurs less frequently today. Statistics show that 90% of teens who get married because of pregnancy will be divorced within six years. The percentage of divorces goes down slightly the older the couple is when they wed.
Some will tell you that getting married is the only “right” or “responsible” thing to do. The father of the baby may feel that it is his duty to get married. You may feel at a loss and marriage may sound comforting and secure. Some will say it is best for the baby to be born into a family with a mommy and a daddy who are married before the baby is born. Hopefully you are in a position to make this decision without undue pressure.
Children require security and stability.
A stable marriage provides a secure environment for children.
When their parents are living in a loving and harmonious relationship, the child will feel loved and secure. But marriage requires commitment for the long haul. Even the most mature and “in love” man and woman may one day fall “out of love” with the other. It requires commitment to stay together even when you don’t feel like staying.
If you are a pregnant woman considering marriage, think through some of the following questions:
If you are not 100% sure that you love him and that you want to be married to him for the rest of your life, take time to consider some other options for your sake and for the sake of your baby.